Ok. We have covered hygiene, preparation, and positions.

Now before I move on I am warning again that this is going to get rather graphic in its descriptions and activities

Now I can only give you information on how it feels for me and how I go about reaching an A-R orgasm.

So as we move on, I am going to be describing these steps in the fashion of single or solo attempt. It will help me go forward faster and cut all the rephrasing for a partner. You can easily adapt this to what ever means you like. So for starters we are going to be doing this in the Doggy Style position. I feel this is the best position for a beginner. Also a small word about the style of dildo you use. Your dildo needs to be able to be mounted on something so it can support the activity you are going to be asking of it. Also a dildo that is extra flexible isn't a good idea. You want this to be as much like the real thing as possible. I don't know about you but a floppy bending penis is not going to be giving you much of a good time. Also consider a dildo that has a pronounced head or glands. I mean find one that looks like a real penis not one of those that is all shaft and has a small head giving the whole thing the look of a torpedo. The ridge of a head or glands is going to make this easier and allot more pleasurable. As this ridge slides along the walls of your rectum you will find it helps you a long way toward your goal.  But if all you have is one of these torpedo shaped dildos it still may do the trick for you. I wouldn’t want to make you go out and spend money on something you don’t want to buy.

 Now this is what I did. I got a very nice dildo that was modeled off a famous porn star. I am not sure witch one anymore. It really does look like a real penis just a tad bigger though. Now of course this thing had the regular floppy problem. I took a wooden dowel and created a hole in the base of the dildo and inserted it as far as the base of the head but no farther. I then took a few pieces of lumber and put together a platform to hold the doweled dildo in place. I did some measuring to find the right height I was comfortable with and drilled a hole just big enough for the dowel to slide through. I then trimmed off the extra dowel and I use a clamp to hold it in place. I also drilled other holes for simulating other positions and multiple heights. Now I have a fairly firm dildo mounted at the right height and angle for an easy penetration. Of course you don't need to go through all this but I do recommend going down to the hardware store and picking up a dowel or two. Putting your dildo on a dowel will allow you to mount it under the edge of your bed or between some boxes or anywhere else you can find that is the right height. A 1/4 inch diameter dowel should do the trick.

Now I am assuming you have your dildo mounted in an appropriate place and at the right height so that when you mount yourself on it, its very comfortable. You do not want any pressure points. If the dildo is hitting a certain spot inside you than adjust it so that it doesn't. Once you have everything setup, put a plastic garbage bag down on the floor and put a few towels down on top of that to get everything ready. The key word here is to relax. You are doing this for fun and pleasure so stay relaxed and remember "DON’T TOUCH YOUR PENIS" but have a good time. Now hopefully you have gotten yourself ready for this by loosing up your anus through massage and by some form of penetration either by fingers or by another dildo.

Continues to Part IV