How to Have an Anal-Rectal Orgasm

Here it is. I hope everyone enjoys reading it and enjoys trying it out.

If you could at least email me back after you have read it and give me your input on it.

I can't say this is totally done and there is always room for input from others. So as you read it through if something doesn't sound right to you from personal experience please let me know so I can work your input in as well. Of course if after you actually try this out and can remember what it was like you can add that as well. I want this to be as accurate as possible. Also I have nearly finished an addendum to this that covers a few areas that I didn’t touch on very clearly in the main “How To”.

Thanks for your time, and enjoy

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Warning:

This is not for the beginner or someone that is brand new to having anal sex. This "How To" is going to be very descriptive in its depiction of body functions and in sexual activities. If you are not into reading this kind of descriptive reading material than you should probably stop now and forget about the whole thing. I will be mentioning bodily waste and fluids and detailed sexual activity between partners and in solo masturbation, toys (a.k.a. dildos), positions, and outcomes. Also I am not a sex specialist or a therapist. The knowledge I am passing on to you here is what I have learned over the years from research andSelf practice. I make no guarantees or promises that this is going to work for you and I will not be held accountable for any harm that you may do to yourself in the attempt. But it works for me and I have never been hurt by it. So it should work for most men. I can promise one thing though. If this helps you have an Anal Orgasm you will want to have them more often

How to Have an Anal-Rectal Orgasm

Part I

Well there seems to be just a little interest in learning to achieve the Anal Orgasm or more precisely the Anal-Rectal Orgasm.

I say anal-rectal because the anus really only has a small part of what this orgasm is all about. This orgasm is deeper in the body and as such can be quite intense. To break this down we can say that there are 3 major kinds of orgasm a man can have. 1. Penile ejaculatory orgasm. 2. Prostate induced orgasm through external or through anal stimulation with or without ejaculation. 3. Anal-Rectal orgasm no ejaculation.

You read right. There is no ejaculation with a true Anal-Rectal orgasm. From here out I will refer to this orgasm as the A-R orgasm to help speed things along. Now the reason there will not be an ejaculation with this orgasm is it comes from a different muscle group than an ejaculatory orgasm does. Let’s clarify this some. The muscles used for an ejaculatory orgasm are based on the pubococcygeal muscle group; from now on I will refer to this muscle group by the standard term of PC muscles. This is the same group that you use to regulate urination and allows you to cut the flow of urine on and off when you want. The prostate induced orgasm is also based on these same muscles. The A-R orgasm is based on another set of pelvic muscles. These muscles regulate the expulsion of waste through the rectum, anus and bladder. The muscle groups are for the most part exclusive to there task. This means while one group is working the other is in a neutral or in a relaxed state. Another way to think about it would be while you are sitting having a bowel movement, think about the things that are going on. Your PC muscles go into a relaxed state allowing urination and the muscles in the walls of your rectum start to contract to move waste out of the body. Also during this process your anal sphincters dilate to allow the waste to pass out of the body. Now if you were to flex your PC muscles at this point the whole process comes to a halt until you relax them again. It is important to know the differences these muscle groups play in the attempt to achieve the A-R orgasm.

Now normally during anal intercourse you are using your PC muscles and contracting your anal sphincters and squeezing your partner’s penis, or if you are flying solo your dildo. Also while you or your partner are stimulating your prostate glad the PC muscles contract on and off along with the anus. Occasionally you may have the urge to give a slight push on your dildo or on your partner’s penis. Now most men stop the pushing because it feels too much like the onset of a bowel movement and probably the fear of creating a mess comes into play in this. Most of the time you then go right back to contracting your PC muscles and anal sphincters to help build to orgasm. In the A-R orgasm you do completely the reverse. You keep your PC muscles relaxed and use the other muscles, the pushing muscles.

The A-R orgasm is probably closer to a woman’s G-spot orgasm than a prostate induced orgasm is. Although it’s believed a woman’s G-spot is basically an embryonic prostate glad, when it triggers an orgasm in a woman it has the same result the A-R orgasm does in a man. It triggers an intense need to push. Most male orgasms result in clenching and squeezing there PC muscles and anal sphincters to achieve and heighten the orgasm. Most men have heard that the "Holy Grail" of male orgasm is the prostate induced orgasm. I feel that the A-R orgasm is just as intense and fulfilling as the other. Now it is nowhere near as easy to achieve this orgasm as a prostate induced orgasm but it can be allot of fun trying. So now we have this out of the way let’s get going. For starters I am a strong believer in hygiene when engaging in any anal intercourse activity. It doesn't take but a short time to clean out the lower bowel so that there is no worry about unwanted messes during your sexual activity. The second reason for taking a light enema or if you prefer douche, is that its going to aid in the creation of your bodies own rectal lubricant. This will cut down on the need for vast amounts of a good water based lubricant. I myself create a great deal of this natural lubricant. What I mean is that over the years I have learned that when I do a clean out for anal activity I am able to create vast amounts of natural rectal lube. So, often I don't even have to use any over the counter sex lubricant because of this. You might create allot of this yourselves or you may not. Every man is different. But unless you do make great quantities I recommend a good water based sex lube that will mix well with your own natural rectal lubricant as things progress. Of course I can't force you to take an enema and you see fit to do as you please. But be forewarned that this activity will induce the need to push a great deal and if you haven't taken measures you may end up with quite a mess. So you decide. There is something else you need to know before we go on. During the build up to an A-R orgasm it is very likely you will force urine out of your bladder. I recommend taking precautions before getting started by at least taking a good leak and keep from drinking allot of fluids before you start your sexual activity. But still be ready for some urine. It’s the price you may have to pay to an A-R orgasm. So have a few towels and possibly a plastic garbage bag ready to use to catch any urine. I would put down the plastic bag on the floor or on the bed and a towel over that to catch any urine. I can't say how much will flow. I have had just a few drops the first time I did it, to having quite a bit flow on other occasions. It will probably be different every time and different with every man. As for why it happens, it is those same muscles that you use to take a bowel movement and to urinate that are going to push the urine out just as if you were having a bowel movement or urinating. Also after the urine stops flowing you may notice a golden yellow fluid that is thick and coming from your penis in place of the urine. This is another natural lubricant from your urinary tract and it is quite normal. While this fluid flows you may have a slight warm feeling come from your penis and down your urethra as well. I recommend that you just go with all of this and enjoy. And yet another thing during this time you may also be releasing great quantities of natural rectal lubricant. This is also normal and it will vary from man to man in its quantity. But do not be surprised by the amount that flows and were it flows too. As I said it’s a good idea to have a few towels ready or placed under you. I said earlier I am a great producer of this stuff and trust me it gets all over. Another thing about your natural rectal lubricant is that when you really start generating this stuff if tends to look allot like seaman in its color and texture and it also has a kind of squash like smell to it. By the way it gets rather sticky as it dries, also allot like seaman. Sex is always messy anyway. So just have fun. One final thing on the topic of preparation. I do not believe in using any kind of drugs when engaging in anal sexual activity. Drugs for the most part tend to deaden the senses and the sensitivity of your nerves. If you use drugs there is a chance you could harm yourself and not be aware of it until after the drugs ware off. Also you need to be in complete control over your muscles and senses. You will find that you will be a lot more responsive to the stimulus you are going to be giving yourself if you are clear of mind and body. So try not to use alcohol, marijuana, and try your best to stay away from poppers.  Your goal here is a natural high through sexual orgasm anyway. I don’t mean to sound preachy on this but I feel it is important for you on your first attempt to be as clear of mind and as in tune with your body as possible.

Continues to Part II